One of the most common games people play with themselves is to think that the reason they are facing setbacks is because others have it in for them. Temporarily, it is very comforting for many people to play ’victim’. We sympathize with victims. People have this natural tendency to run to the help of victims. And who does not want to have the natural sympathy of the crowd!   But this toxic mindset comes at a high price.

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